Cut n paste from Mike Robertz

1. A man won't let go if he really loves you.
- Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He does not love you and does not value having you. Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves you. There is another reason he is not willing to tell.

2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship.
- There is only one reason why he ended your relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste your time thinking of reasons or what you should have done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love you.

3. Do not get hang up on your past.
- Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just because your ex hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not because you didn't guard him enough or you didn't make him happy enough.

4. Do not look into images.
- How many times have you met a girl who didn't have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not fear men just because your "supposedly" perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.

5. Always have your own set of rules.
- Set your limits on how far you'd go for a guy. It's perfectly ok to give and do everything as long as it's worth it. And it’s worth it if the guy is treating you right.

6. Do not be scared to lose him.
- Don't be scared that he'll break up with you. Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage. Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.

7. Avoid calling your guy.
- It’' a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if it's the guy who's calling, not the girl. He will get tired of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it's a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy until you dial his number. But avoid as much as possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if your suspicions are reasonable).

8. There is a guy who will value you.
- There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together. So don't lose hope. Don't settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can.
Also, do not believe him when he says it's just the way he really is. He's not the sweet or expressive-type. Remember during your first few weeks together? Where has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into you anymore.

9. Always be the only one, no matter what.
- Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be it his wife, girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just can't get rid of for whatever reason. If you truly believe that he loves you and for some reason, he can't leave or let go of another girl, then you are no different from any ordinary mistress.

10. He must respect you.
- No matter how long the relationship has been, he should always show respect towards you.

11. If he fooled you, end it.
- Philandering once is enough. You can never trust nor respect the person again.

12. Never start a relationship the wrong way.
- Do not steal another girl's man, for whatever reason. Nor should you enter a relationship for the wrong reasons (loneliness, on the rebound, getting back at your ex, man-dependency, etc.) it is bound not to last. You will only end up wasting more years of your life.

13. Do not force yourself into a relationship.
- Do not get into a relationship just because your friends are getting impatient with your dating escapades and the one hasn't come yet. Do not choose who to say yes to based on superficial things like money, looks, cars, etc.. If you are even thinking of these things, you have not fallen in love yet.

14. Do not settle.
- If you are not happy anymore with your relationship, break up instantly. He will not stay with you forever no matter how upright he might seem to be. Eventually, he will also want love and happiness in his life.

15. A relationship has to have love.
- Love is the only thing that will push you to give your efforts into making the relationship work. And believe me, keeping a relationship requires genuine efforts of both parties.

16. Don't be afraid to be single.
- It's fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever and wherever you want. You are free. You can date whomever you want and you get to go out for free! Do not get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. Do not settle.

17. Be a good girl.
- Be a good girl to attract a good guy. Enter the relationship with sincere intentions. Take the guy and the relationship seriously with the plan of spending the rest of your life with that person (of course, this is after you had your bit of fun in your younger years). If you compare your flings from your real relationships, you will know that the latter makes you happier and more fulfilled.

18. Love without limits.
- Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but held out for some things, if the relationship ends, you still get hurt. But if you gave your everything, you were happy and you could say that it was worth it. If you didn't give your all, you get hurt for nothing.

19. You will get over him.
- Love is over-stated. Love eventually ends and you are free to love another.

20. Be the one.
- Act like you are the one. Don't be a nagger. Don't hinder his gimmicks. Don't give in to him too easily. Make him treat you as important. Don't be easy. Don't be like every other girl he had in his life.

A man won't let go, if he really loves you.

SoMe PeOpLe~~

Some people are proud having a big car but they forgot how to small their self in society.

Some people are proud for having higher education level but they forgot how to lower their self.

Some people proud to have a handsome or pretty boyfriend or girlfriend but they forgot how to respect the ugliest one.

Some people proud to have a lot of money but forgot how to donate a little money for those who are needed.

Some people proud to be rich in money but they are poor in attitudes.

Some people proud to cheat/lie but they forgot how to be honest. 

A Broken Heart

When I read this article about "a broken heart", remind me about my past.. Hurmm.. How this "thing" ruined my life.. Sometimes, I feel there is no hope for me to recover from a broken heart.. Split up with ur boyfriends, ur boyfriend cheat and flirt with other girls, failed in ur exam, lose someone important in ur life and so on.. While reading the article, the writer suggest two choices that u can take.. First, escape from the pain.. Or face it and walk with it.. Honestly, I'm always choose the first one.. ESCAPE FROM THE PAIN.. I will do anything to avoid the pain, forget about it and defeat it.. But, THE PAIN still remains there.. How to be healed and recovery from the pain? The only way is FACE the pain and walk with it.. If we only want to look at ourselves, we are doomed to fail because we have a lot of limitations.. And I'm realized there a HOPE that can heal me.. My GOD.. I surrendered all my PAIN to HIM.. and now I feel FREE.. What an amazing GOD!!..

Blood Donation with CLC members..

Donating Blood for the first time..

really nervous..

and its make my BP (Blood Pressure)low..

Ben was the 1st person donating his blood..

This is the person who "cucuk" me with BIG Needle..

Irwin - the 3rd person who donating his blood..

got a lot of experiences ody..

haha..

all member just watching Ben..

mst sakit..says Rizoh..

hahaha..

Caren checking her weight..

=)

ready to "kena cucuk"..

dup dap..dup dap..

Ivanna look nervous..

Now,it times for Irwin..

hahaha..

Rizoh check BP..

After donating blood..

hehe..

Ben senyum2 ja..

Still in the process..

hehe..

Chaiyok!!

Aik??..Rizoh pun derma darah???

hehe..

Wlupun takut dgn jarum besar..

Logos Hope & SHOPPING!!

Finally, me and the geng find out where the ship was landed..
hehe..
really big ship rite??
whoa!!..

From here, you can see how small they are..
hehe..

Some drawing..
=)

People getting ready to enter the ship..
Rm1 per entry for adult only..

Taking picture before enter The Logos Hope.. 

Inside the logos hope..
A lot of book and movie..
Very cheap and affordable..

After buying some stuff at Logos Hope, we going to The Spring..
Having dinner at Sugar Bun..

Sempat lg taking picture before eating..
Btw, enjoy eating!!..=)

Kayak ke??

This is Kayak Notice board..
=)

Kayak that has been used for Padawan Raft Safari 2011. 

This is the place kayak has been place.

One of Unimas staff member..I guess..
They using the ocean kayak..
Easy to use and u won't capsize ma...

My lecturer also play kayak?? Woww!! So, interesting ma..

This is one of my team member in Kayak..
Cordy and her Bf..
Training for Sukan Borneo antara IPT..
All da best,ging!!

One of my course mate..
hehe..
Ni b'kayak ke b'gambar je keja?? 

K1 and K2 (the blue colour)
this type of kayak only can be used by a professional..
I have tries this before and its a good experiences to learn..haha
if u a new user, better use plastics kayak..
Fiber Kayak (the red colour)
this type also can be used for new user but its a bit tough and need more confident..
 haha..every kayak have different density in water..

Ocean kayak (the orange colour) 

type of paddle..
this type a bit heavy than a Brasca..

Model of water confident??
hahaha..
I guess so..

Model of water tower??

Model of the skies..

Model of the Road..

Model of the Car..
Now, ready to go back home!!!
Vroooooommmm........=P

Makai2 plus Jalai2 with Na-Bi-La~~

Barok cafe .. For the first time, having dinner with my besty, Nabila..
Crazy women ba itu.. hehehe..
It's quit nice and I really like how they design this cafe..
The waitress and waiter wearing a traditional clothes and traditional hat..
For someone who really like about culture and tourism,
this is the place where you should go.. 

the menu book..hahaha..
most of the food are Halal..

Food that Nabila n me ordered..
Lemiding masak belacan , sup sayur campur, Butter Prawn.. 

This is ikan kerapu masak merah..
Total up : RM 40..
=)